Interview with God 採訪上帝

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作者: noel 發表于 2007-9-7 13:06:02
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"Come in," God said to me,
"So, you would like to interview Me?"
"If you have the time," I said.

He smiled and said:
"My time is called eternity
and is enough to do everything;
what questions do you have in mind to ask me?"

"None that are new to you.
What's the one thing that
surprises you most about mankind?"

He answered:
"That they get bored of being children,
are in a rush to grow up,
and then long to be children again.

That they lose their health to make money
and then lose their money to restore their health.

That by thinking anxiously about the future,
they forget the present, such that they live
neither for the present nor the future.

That they live as if they will never die,
and they die as if they had never lived..."

His hands took mine and we were silent.
After a long period, I said,
"May I ask you another question?"
"As a Father, what would you ask
your children to do for the new year?"

He replied with a smile:
"To learn that they cannot make anyone love them.
What they can do is to let themselves be loved.

To learn that it takes years to build trust,
and a few seconds to destroy it.
To learn that what is most valuable
is not what they have in their lives,
but who they have in their lives.

To learn that it is not good
to compare themselves to others.
There will be others better or worse than they are.

To learn that a rich person is
not one who has the most,
but is one who needs the least.

To learn that they should control their attitudes,
otherwise their attitudes will control them.

To learn that it only takes a few seconds
to open profound wounds in persons we love,
and that it takes many years to heal them.

To learn to forgive
by practising forgiveness.

To learn that there are persons
that love them dearly, but simply
do not know how to show their feelings.

To learn that money can
buy everything but happiness.

To learn that while at times
they may be entitled to be upset,
that does not give them the right
to upset those around them.

To learn that great dreams
do not require great wings,
but a landing gear to achieve.

To learn that true friends are scarce,
he/she who has found one
has found a true treasure.
To learn that it is not always enough
that they be forgiven by others,
but that they forgive themselves.

To learn that they are
masters of what they keep to themselves
and slaves of what they say.

To learn that they shall reap what they plant;
if they plant gossip they will harvest intrigues,
if they plant love they will harvest happiness.

To learn that true happiness is
not to achieve their goals but to learn
to be satisfied with what they already achieved.

To learn that happiness is a decision.
They decide to be happy
with what they are and have,
or die from envy and jealousy of what they lack.

To learn that two people can look at the same thing
and see something totally different.

To learn that those
who are honest with themselves
without considering the consequences
go far in life.

To learn that even though
they may think they have nothing to give,
when a friend cries with them,
they find the strength to appease the pain.

To learn that by trying to hold on to loved ones,
they very quickly push them away;
and by letting go of those they love,
they will be side by side forever.

To learn that even though
the word "love" has many different meanings,
it loses value when it is overstated.

To learn that they can never
do something extraordinary for Me to love them;
I simply do.
To learn that the shortest distance
they could be from Me is the distance of a prayer."

http://www.interviewwithgod.com/theoriginal.htm
noel 發表於 2007-9-7 13:06:36 |顯示全部樓層
採訪上帝

我夢見自己在採訪上帝。 「你要訪問我嗎?」上帝問。
「如果你有時間的話」我說。
上帝露出微笑:「我有永恆的時間,你想問我什麼問題?」

「人類有哪些事最令你驚訝?」
上帝回答:「他們覺得童年很無聊,急著讓自己長大,然後又想回到童年。」
「他們為了賺錢而失去健康,然後又花錢要找回健康。」
「他們對未來充滿憂慮,但卻忘記現在;於是,他們既不生活於現在之中,又不生活於未來之中。」
「他們活得好像永遠不會死,卻死得好像未曾活過一樣。」

上帝握住我的手,我們靜坐了片刻。

然後我問:「為人父的你,希望兒女明白哪些人生的功課?」
上帝微笑著回答:「明白不可能強迫人來愛他們,只能讓自己被愛。」

「明白跟別人比較是不好的。」
「明白富人不是擁有最多的人,而是需要最少的人。」
「明白揭開心愛之人的創傷只需幾秒鐘,卻要花很多年才能痊癒。」
「明白饒恕是需要練習才能學會。」
「明白有些人很愛他們,只是不知道表達。」
「明白兩個人看一件事,會有不同的看法。」
「明白光被別人饒恕還不夠,自己也必須饒恕自己。」

「並且明白我就在這裡,直到永遠。」

http://www.bamboo.hc.edu.tw/~shally/misc/swf/s020_chinese.swf   (中文版)

「每一株玫瑰都有刺,正如每一個人性格中,都有你不能容忍的部分。
愛護一朵玫瑰,並不是得努力把它的刺拔掉,
只能學習如何不被它的刺刺傷,
還有如何不讓自己的刺刺傷心愛的人 ...... 」
「很多事情錯過了就沒有了,錯過了就是會變的。」
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八王爺 發表於 2007-9-7 16:57:20 |顯示全部樓層
所以,看見喜歡的花花要買,不要因為太貴就唔捨得。
同時,遇到喜歡的人也要講,若怕尷尬不出声就錯過。
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GOODluck20x 發表於 2007-9-7 17:17:18 |顯示全部樓層
「明白揭開心愛之人的創傷只需幾秒鐘,卻要花很多年才能痊癒。」   有同感
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tata 發表於 2007-9-7 17:24:28 |顯示全部樓層
我鐘意呢句:

「每一株玫瑰都有刺,正如每一個人性格中,都有你不能容忍的部分。
愛護一朵玫瑰,並不是得努力把它的刺拔掉,
只能學習如何不被它的刺刺傷,
還有如何不讓自己的刺刺傷心愛的人 ...... 」

點評

咁唔心愛的就可以刺之?  發表於 2012-9-16 12:54
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Fonica 發表於 2007-9-7 17:29:58 |顯示全部樓層
雖然自己不相上帝,但覺得內文很有意思....做人處事要多多學習
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feufeu 發表於 2007-9-8 00:28:24 |顯示全部樓層
    
To learn that happiness is a decision.
They decide to be happy
with what they are and have,
or die from envy and jealousy of what they lack.
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春春 發表於 2007-9-8 01:34:39 |顯示全部樓層
原帖由 Fonica 於 2007-9-7 17:29 發表
雖然自己不相上帝,但覺得內文很有意思....做人處事要多多學習


妳梗係要啦!!!
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笨笨 發表於 2007-9-8 19:00:09 |顯示全部樓層
少少既文字,意思豐富
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水滸女子 發表於 2007-9-9 00:46:13 |顯示全部樓層
noel姐 唔介意轉寄比其他朋友嗎?
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janice 發表於 2007-9-9 20:47:45 |顯示全部樓層
To learn that it takes years to build trust,
and a few seconds to destroy it.

To learn that happiness is a decision.
They decide to be happy
with what they are and have,
or die from envy and jealousy of what they lack.

呢兩點,好到肉
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noel 發表於 2007-9-10 10:19:17 |顯示全部樓層
原帖由 水滸女子 於 2007-9-9 00:46 發表

noel姐 唔介意轉寄比其他朋友嗎?

好啊~
唔洗咁客氣啦!  我都係响網絡睇到
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noel 發表於 2007-9-10 10:21:11 |顯示全部樓層
我比較鍾意....

「明白不可能強迫人來愛他們,只能讓自己被愛。」
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八王爺 發表於 2007-9-16 10:07:02 |顯示全部樓層
如果真係 見到 上帝,我冧乜都唔使講。
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Grace 發表於 2007-9-16 16:28:30 |顯示全部樓層
我就喜歡...
「明白不可能強迫人來愛他們,只能讓自己被愛。」
「明白跟別人比較是不好的。」
「明白揭開心愛之人的創傷只需幾秒鐘,卻要花很多年才能痊癒。」
「明白饒恕是需要練習才能學會。」
「明白兩個人看一件事,會有不同的看法。」
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Hylvl 發表於 2012-9-16 12:13:24 |顯示全部樓層
That they lose their health to make money
and then lose their money to restore their health.

So typical of the people in Hong Kong.  And hard working men are turned into slaves by their house mortgage.
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八王爺 發表於 2012-9-16 16:19:38 |顯示全部樓層
價值觀:
有健康嘅,想要錢
有錢嘅,想要健康
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hugopoodle 發表於 2012-9-16 17:22:10 |顯示全部樓層
I read this many years before, a new reflection when I read this time~
Thanks for sharing~~

I love this line and totally agree:
"To learn that happiness is a decision.
They decide to be happy
with what they are and have, ...."
除了很極端的情況, 我覺得凡事都是一個個人選擇,雖然環境在塑造我們或對我們設限,
但我們總有選擇的位置及機會, 快樂也是一樣

我也想起曾有一位朋友送給我的八字珍言:
『知足感恩,活在當下』
我將這八字珍言貼了在我辦公室的牆上, 時刻提醒自己
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